If you love him, why consider breaking up? This makes no sense at all.
It's your right to wait as long as you feel you should. He should be OK with that. In the meantime, there are some things the two of you can do together that aren't sex, but which you'd both find enjoyable, if you're willing to consider some more limited forms of activity.I would like to wait until marriage to have sex and my boyfriend has been really patient and understanding but?
You are being paranoid about something that you shouldn't be. You are literally waiting for a conflict that isn't happening right now. If he is being patient and understanding, then stop expecting something bad to happen. It may have happened in your past, or you may have seen it happen to others. It doesn't mean that this guy will be like this. It isn't grounds to break up at all. Let me put it this way. My fiance has promised to be faithful to me at all times. If I believed he MAY cheat and break up with him based on my paranoia, I'm not being fair. You would be doing the same thing if you broke up with your boyfriend for what you think he MAY do in the future -- maybe -- sometime. Don't assume his actions and base your actions off that assumption before he even has a CHANCE to act.
No, don't break up with him. Why do you want to wait? Its really not as ';Special'; these days as it used to be. Would you buy a car without test driving it first. What if he is horrible? Extra small... tool..? But your married and then its kind of too late without having to get a divorce. Then you'll end up cheating on him and then you'll have a baby with him, cheat on him some more because he is horrible, then get a divorce.. you might as well test it out first.. then if it is good and you like everything.. then your good to go. But then you really won't have anything to compare it too, so you'll end up cheating on him anyways..
I would suggest sleeping with about 4 other guys, at least twice each, so you know how other guys are.. then you'll have something to compare it to. Everyone might think I'm a d*** or whatever, but I have been with several married girls that lost it to the guy they married and it just wasn't enough... Test drive before you buy!
No this isn't unfair! It is your body and you have every right to wait until marriage. That's actually a very good moral value. He loves you, and if you break up with him after he's waiting for you, that would be unfair. Stay with your guy, you've found a genuine one, and you are very lucky indeed.
If he's still with you and respects your decision, that's his choice. I don't understand why you're having an issue, unless you're having doubt about your own beliefs and choices. If he kept asking for sex or has been thinking about sex with another, that might be cause to discuss parting ways (because of different needs). But until then, stop worrying.
I ALWAYS say no to these questions. What if you get married and have sex and you don't like it. SURPRISE some women DON'T like sex. Also if the man is STUPID enought to marry a girl before he check's her out in bed, he may find that a sexually inexperienced female is NOT a good lay. Good sex is learned your not born with the ability to ';give'; great sex.
yeah he shouldve broken up with you as soon as you said ';sex'; and ';marriage'; and ';wait.';
you dont have to break up with him, but if you have any sort of sympathy youd make sure he was happy. esp if hes going to stick with you and your uptighedness.
HELL NO, You have a real good man if he is waiting until you get married!!! I don't know any of my friends doing that, I'm 40. You would rather leave him than give a great man some sex. You will never have sex in your life because you probably won't ever find another real man like you have know!!!
SWEETY,
GO DO HIM!!!
This really isnt grounds for a breakup. Especially when he is being so understanding. Thats a very good quality in a guy and you would be stupid to let go of him. He is respecting your desicion and not pushing you. I would feel very lucky to have a guy like him.
You don't have to have sex with anyone, Until you are ready. If your bf understands that, then there's no problem. If he doesn't understand that and is trying to pressure you, then it's time to dump him. It's your life, your body, and your decision. Always.
wow! how do u want to break up with a guy who is actually waiting for u! do u know how many girls want that! anyways u shouldnt break up with him be thankful and if u dodnt want to have sex until u are married but feel bad then just mess around u know play sexually just not have sex
if it wasn't fair for him then he would complain
if he is fine then don't worry about it.
but i would advise you to tell him how you feel. it will help you feel better plus make him feel close to you.
of course not! It is absolutely ABSURD not to be married when you have sex. Don't brake up because of that, but if he thinks its okay to have it before marriage, there is a slight problem there.
No. If he is understanding, breaking up will only confuse him (and you)
Since you love each other, keep it that way...love is not sex, sex is not love
it depends how old you and the guy are. but you should really wait for marriage. i wish i did. and no dont breakup.
Um....well, that's completely up to you. If you want to wait, then wait. Dont let your ';i want to be a good girlfriend'; mindset set in. This is your body. Do what you choose.
The same thing is happening to me and i believeif he's willing to wait then he must really respect you.Dont brake up he trully loves you!
no...you've got a good man. keep him. he respects, loves, and cares about you. there's no reason to dump him over that.
No, If you want to wait and hes willing to wait with you then you should wait.
querida, there is absolutely no problem in your relationship. leave it alone.
if his willing to wait for you then he must really love you,you shouldnt break his heart.
HELL NO
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