What do people say this about marriage and sex?

Everyone says that after marriage sex stops, things get boring, everything sounds like it goes down the drain. Why? Whats the differences? What Happens? I see no difference in being married and not being married other than papers. So please tell me what happens??What do people say this about marriage and sex?
Everyone isn't me. I've been married to the same woman for 12 years. The sex just gets better for us. Of course, we are deeply in love.





The problem with most people is exactly what you said - no difference other than papers. If its just a legal arrangement for you, the sex will fade and chances are you will become a statistic. You have to love each other and treat each other like your stupid kids in love through out your marriage. That's our trick. Most people get busy with their lives and forget why they fell in love. They put their jobs first, their social lives first, etc.What do people say this about marriage and sex?
I think that its mostly that you know that you can have that person any time you want so why have to do it all the time. I guess most people just get tired of the normal routine everyday that they just seem to get better at sex after doing it once a month or twice every 6 months or only on anniversaries. It amazes me how once you get married your sex life starts to go from firey so really boring and old fashioned.
I was abstinate until marriage..so therefore, sex started when I got married..unlike most. But I have heard this as well. I think it is because people get busy, the flirting and trying to impress each other and funny feeling in your tummy goes away...and you don't feel like being all over each other much. It depends on the couple, their personalities, their views of sex, and everything of the sort. My husband and I spent every day together before marriage so the only big difference for us is that we can have sex since we didn't before. We get along amazingly, share everything (not just physical possessions, but stories, anything important to us, time together, etc) and we make sure to take time out of busy schedules to have date nights. As long as you don't let your work/college/kids take over your personal life with your husband or wife, then you will be fine. A lot of people say sex stops after kids because you are too busy with them. Just make sure to take time, at least a day a week, to spend at least a few hours together besides when you are tired and go to bed and just want to sleep, and you will build a stronger marriage than most people.
No need for it to stop. You will get bored if you ate the same chocolate every day too. Variety is the name of the game. Try different positions, different places, different outfits. PLAN to have fun. Don't let everyday life get in the way.





Make your partner the most special thing in your life - yes, above your children (don't leave them wanting, but remember they are a result of your love together - AND they will leave you). Play your card right, and your partner will be with you for ever.





Angelhaiku says that women are tired after a full day's work and then having to do HIS laundry (putting clothes in the washer which does all the work and dries it in many cases) and HIS dishes (putting dishes in dishwasher which does all the work).... Well gee, I guess HE comes home from work - perhaps a more manual work than hers (read ';physically tired';) - and has to take out HER trash, mow HER half of the grass.......





That attitude is why the sex stops and divorces increase.





In our marriage we both do things for US.
Kids, busy work schedules, blending of families and bills happen...that's what happens! lol





If you have all of the above, and you two still have a dynamite sex life, you need to bottle your secret up and sell it to the rest of us!





Seriously, marriage is continuous...HARD...WORK. Did I mention continuous? As in on-going, never-ending. **sighs** True, a piece of paper, coupled with tax breaks from the government, is pretty much all that separates married from single, there's something about the state of marriage, that either a) relaxes one to the point of not giving a hoot, that they get real comfortable and feel like, ';Hey, we're married now...that stuff we did when we dated is so unnecessary'; or b) makes them step up their game and keep things alive (in the boudoir and everywhere else)





It just depends on the couple's commitment level. Also, youth plays a teeny part too. Long story short, YOUR marriage is what you make it. Forget all the stuff you hear...except of course, what I just typed! lol
I don't know about everyone, but the sex just kept getting better between me and my late husband. He passed away last month. We had a very loving and lustful relationship. It changed a bit after the children came, but was always passionate and it was a little less often but it was still great. Kids are mood killers, but they are also awesome little reminders of the love we shared.
well it's definitely not the case in my marriage. Our sex life is still at full throttle.





I'm guessing this is because the woman now has a house to keep clean, do HIS laundry, clean up HIS dishes, and if she has children, that's a whole bigger responsibility.





After working all day and bedtime comes and she's totally exhausted.. the last thing on her mind is pleasing her man. I know from experience.





These guys should try to do all the things that their wife does in a day, then have the wife beg them to have sex. hah!
Marriage takes work, just like anything else. Play in the bedroom doesn't have to stop just because you are married! Make it fun. For more tips, consider hosting a Passion Party with your friends. You will be able to purchase a wide selection of romance enhancements to keep your romance hot.





-Laura
the sex doesn't stop. i have been married for almost 10 years and we still have sex. it does slow down some after children though. also, depending on how strong the love for one another is, you do start to get bored with the same old same old. but if you truly love each other you may never get bored.
What happens is (some) people get comfortable. What they did to get their spouse they stop doing it because they feel they have their spouse. The same things you did to get your spouse is the same thing you do to keep them.
Lol EVERYONE IS THE ECONOMY





THEY MAKE THIS BULL SHI* UP





lol ok Not me


ii have sex with my hubby liek basicly EVERDAY


the time we dont do it is when we get sore


MMM


hhehehehe





Dont lissing to idiots





EVERYONE is DIFFRENT
gets to be boring. Why? Because you take out the fun and adventure.
Not me... I have more sex now married then when I was single
when a woman gets married she no longer needs give you sex in order to have your money. Now what is yours is also of hers. Very unfairly.





If you decided to divorce her, there would be even more money for her.