I know a few people who have gotten married due to a pregnancy....
Some have worked and some haven't. The ones that didnt work were because the pregnancy was a mistake and they weren't into each other from the start, emotional issues and trust were all factors in the break up.
So as long as they truly love each other and dont mind taking care of the child and making sacrifices to make it work, then your sister should be fine...Just wondering... Who has gotten married because they got pregnant and did the marriage work out?
well i feel that getting married just because she got pregnant is a bad idea, a relationship should be because they love each other and want to get married, and why not get married before having unprotected sex?
i have seen a lot of people get married because of a pregnancy,
my brother ended up finding out the kid wasnt his, my sister in law married not even 2 years then got divorced, my best friend Beth got married she was 4 months pregnant and lol they ended up not being able to stand each other,
do not know anyone this happen to but my opinion is no children out of wedlock. And if it feels right compared (yes) to think it is the right thing to do (no). You are her sister though you need to be supportive no matter your opinion. If your sister realizes that it is something she wants to do then let her if it is something she feels she needs to do then stop before it is too late.
We didn't get married because I was pregnant, we got married when we got married due to the pregnancy. We were talking about it before anyway. It just moved it a little quicker than we planned. That may also be the case for your sister. Her marriage has just as good a shot as any. We have been married 10 years now. We are still happy we married each other. We have 2 kids now. I don't regret our decision.
Yes, it works, first guy I ever dated, been together over 6 years married for almost 4. It's very hard once the child comes because your tired and you don't know what to do and that's where most people lose it because sometimes one or both can't grow up to raise the child or can't agree; but if both truly love each other they'll always find a way to make it would together.
there is a girl at my school who got pregnant and she's getting married, but i dont even think the guy she's marrying was her boyfriend, cuz he had sex w/ my bestie a week after he got her pregnant, so im sure they wont make it. but if your sister seems like she's in love, they probably will. =]
I got pregnant with my daughter and didnt get married, because i didnt love him. But i am now pregnant with #2 and i am marrying the father of this child, because i do love him.. thats the question if she loves him, great, if she doesnt... it will never work. good luck
It's working so far.
Had they ever considered getting married before? Getting married just because of a pregnancy isn't the best way to go, but speeding up the time line a little shouldn't hurt. Ask them if they would ever marry if there were no baby.
My aunt and Uncle got married because my aunt got pregnant and a yr later they divorced...
but knowing what happened with other people won't help you with the question of whether your sister is doing the right thing. Every couple is different.
My partner married because his girlfriend got pregnant..... he thought it was the right thing to do. Three yrs later they divorced.
going on 6 years.
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