Friday, July 30, 2010

Does anyone else feel old enough for a baby but not for marriage?

I dont know why i dont feel ready for marriage because its not that important to me at the end of the day its not going to change anything between me and my partner...








Anyone else feel the same?Does anyone else feel old enough for a baby but not for marriage?
If it's not going to change anything, then why are you not ready for it?Does anyone else feel old enough for a baby but not for marriage?
Marriage may not change anything between you and your partner but a baby should. If you see qualities in this person and you want to have a child with him then I say go for it but i don't totally understand why you wouldn't want to get married to him because he is going to be in your life forever because of the child.


Good luck in whatever you decide to do but realize it is not whether or not you are old enough but mature enough and fincaiallystable enough to support a child.
It is okay to not be ready for marriage just yet, but by all means, do not do something as immature as have a baby when marriage is out of the question. Because believe me babies are as much of a commitment as marriage is. To me, if you are not ready for one then you are not ready for the other either.
What does age have to do with it? If you honestly believe you are not mature enough to handle marriage, then you are absolutely not ready to have a child.





However, there's nothing wrong with having a child outside of marriage if you and your partner are mature enough to deal with the consequences.
Plenty of people have kids before weddings these days. As long as you and your partner are on the same page there is no reason not to. I actually know a few people who have done it, with and without partners, and they are quite happy.
Yet another stupid, silly retard girl getting ready to F**k up her whole life, and the life of an innocent baby as well.





Good job, MORON.
I think you have your priorities backward- married first then think about kids.
NO - NO and NO.
don't have a baby till you have time for a family...

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