Are you sure you're not my neighbor? =)
I'm a bit of a mama's boy (unico hijo kasi e) and wifey is kinda spoiled (family favorite sya e) and we seem to have nothing in common at all at first. The only thing we have in common, I think, is love. But one thing I learned, after all these years, is this: Give one another enough space to breathe. Sometimes too much love is ';nakakasakal'; and the house becomes too small for the two of you. It's hard to explain and to believe because there will be so many instances and situations that you will need to set your partner free for a while to save the marriage and the family.How do you make a marriage work?
Thanks for believing, BL... and for the BA, too... =)
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To make a marriage work,both husband and wife need to be open with one another and communicate with each other. As for a spoiled wife,she needs to learn that it is not just about her now,she needs to learn that she cannot get what she wants when she wants. As for a mama's boy,he needs to realize that he cannot run to his mother all the time when a problem arises. Both need to lay ground rules and work things out together.
Most importantly, its takes 2 to make it right. In the case of mama's boy husband and spoiled wife, these 2 persons need real counseling to enlighten their perception of what marriage is.
I know a young couple with 4 kids who don't know what the hell their doing. They don't want to listen to anyone.
COMPROMISE.
if you can't do that, DO NOT marry.
a spoiled wife and a mama's boy are two potent ingredients of a disaster-marriage.
Getting married for ';good'; reasons helps.
obey what your spouse want you to do.
Which one of you wrote? Doesn't sound like a sincere question.
Make sure you live far away from either in-laws!
relocation helps a lot, stay from the in-laws as far as possible
take the couple to an island...
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