It depends on love, your age, length of relationship, parental approval, education, finacial security is very important, capatability and can both of you like what you see in the morning.
If you love each very much, a year is enough time. If you just want security this is not the way to go!How long should you be in a relationship b4 u start thinking about marriage?
I dont enter a relationship unless I think it could ultimately lead to marriage (as in, unless i can see myself marrying the guy). I dont like to talk about marriage with the person until I feel sure it could work, so maybe after a year or two.
And the way marriages are now-a-day . . . If you are under the age of 25 . . . why are you in a relationship . . . because one of the reasons people divorce is because they are still learning about themselves . . . and they change . . . and because they change they are no longer the person (or you are no longer the person) you've fell in love with.
In the U.S. 50% of all marriages end in divorce . . . If marriaged after the age of 25 . . . 75% end up in divorce if married earlier.
Also, look into a prenupt . . . I know women cringe on it . . . and it is not a trust issue . . . but it is an insurance issue . . . .
It is like auto insurance for marriage . . . no one plans to get into an accident, but if it happens it is nice to have. Marriage is the same thing, but you are more likely to get into a divorce than into an auto accident. Should you have insurance for prevent you from losing half of everything you worked hard to earn. Plus after it is signed . . . place it in a safety deposit box at the bank . . . and forget about it. If you get a divorce the box will come up in the documents of assets . . . but the asset is for you alone.
The main reason . . . of the split up . . . is they didn't fulfill the dreams - fantasies - and career goal. . . . what about your education . . . and career or are you just going to sit around the house and get fat.
I tell guys . . . don't get married . . . until you have fulfilled your career goals . . . because if they do . . . their wives are going to complain that you spend too much time at work and don't spend enough time with me. So he spend more time with her and because he didn't work his a** off . . . he won't get that promotion to buy you things later.
Plus when you are young . . . do you really know what love is . . . I didn't . . . what I thought was love was infatuation . . . so don't see the person shortcomings or faults . . . . or if you do . . . you say . . . ';isn't that cute he leave his socks all over the floor . . . he soo helpless and I love to help him'; . . . but after you get married and are together for a while then it goes . . . ';that lazy son of a B***** . . . . he doesn't do anything . . . always leaving a mess . . . watching TV'; He done that from the beginning but when you are in a serious serious relationship . . . things change . . . usually the women . . . rarely the men.
I hope you take this into mind . . . don't get into a serious relationship . . . you really should have a boyfriend . . . if you expect to do good in college. . . and I am not talking community college . . . I am talking University . . . you should expect the best of yourself . . . and you will get the best person for yourself later down the line . . . if it is the same person . . . then it is meant to be . . . if not . . . so be it.
Marriage is wonderful . . . but not for everyone . . . if you decide to get married . . . play it safe
There is no right or wrong answer to this question, it varies from person to person, relationship to relationship, situation to situation. The first time I got married we had been in a relationship for almost 4 years and after 7 years of marriage it ended. In my current marriage we were in a relationship for only 6 months before we got married and after 7 years we are still married. In other words the length of time before really didn't matter it was more about the timing and the feelings involved. The best thing I can tell you is make sure that your both on the same page about thinking of marriage.
it depends but let him bring up the topic
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Depends on how quickly you want to ruin that relationship.
Why ruin a good thing by getting married???!!!???
how long have you've been in this relationship has it been a year or more? if it's been past six years you may want to re-think this relationship then again he may ask you the next year. It really depends on you and how long you want to wait. But personally I wish I had waited more four years to marry at least by then you really know them and there quirks are truely revealed.
If you're ready emotionally, mentally, physically and financially, then go for it.
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