Saturday, August 21, 2010

What kind of girl a men expect at the first night of marriage?

What they expect in general from the virgin wife - they expect a shy girl or a arrogant girl? does they get extra happiness during sex when they understand the girl is virgin? what they expect from the girl, when they make ';love'; to her, that the girl will behave crazy too or behave shy? I m asking about the first night of marriage - not for general days after marriage.What kind of girl a men expect at the first night of marriage?
They probably expect to get a wife who, even though she is a virgin, goes wild and sexy at their touch. And of course they are due to be disappointed. She will be on edge, it will hurt her, she will not like it and will always remember her wedding night as being the most awful night of her life and a huge let-down after the wedding.


Before the wedding she admired him, respected him, his manliness was a turn on. She will afterwards remember him bouncing around like a yoyo, getting all worked up and sweaty, this is it, the mystery is gone and there is a good film on tv she doesn't want to miss.What kind of girl a men expect at the first night of marriage?
Enjoyable sex on the first night is all about communication between the two of you. If both of you are virgins, I think it actually makes things less complicated. You both know that you only have a rough idea of what to do and it is wonderful exploring everything together.





To get to the point of your question. I think most guys think that if their wife is a virgin, then she'll be on the shy side, at least not confident on what is going on.
well if you know each other enough to be getting married, he should obviously know if you are a virgin or not. As far as how you should act I am thinking that is different for every couple. Ask him what he likes..If he wants you to be a freak in the bed, than go for it (as long as you feel combfortable doing so). If he wants you to be ';shy'; than do that too. Do whatever makes you feel best, cause it is your body. You will soon find out what he likes. Also, if you have truly waited for sex until marriage than CONGRATULATIONS! I am proud that there are still a few that do!
be normal and all goes well.. sensible guys do understand that their partner will be a bit shy in the begining. Try to talk it out about your likes, dislikes and discomfort if any..
Well, everything in life must balance, not too arrogant=confident. Shyness will intrigue. Be honest most important. If you are a virgin then let him know, this will effect intercourse. Sex in marriage is shared between 2 partners who love each other and communicate with each other. If you are a virgin, then I would not recommend acting crazy. Notice it would be acting. Be yourself and it will be special and he will cherish it forever.
Waint until that night and just do whatever comes naturally. Dont think about what you should or shouldnt do, it will be good either way.
depends. both on you and on him.


if u r marrying this guy, this means you know each other pretty well. so he knows you, and you know him. have you actually never talked about sex?


the actual fact that you have saved yourself for him will flatter him, but on the other side it means you will not be able to enjoy it, cause it will be your first time and you will be unexperienced, which is, at least according to me, quite a drawback. you will not know what neither you want, nor what he wants. my best advice is get yourself educated-and be prepared for whatever comes up. when it comes to it, talk to him, sex should be a pleasure for both of you. decide what you both want, and then do it.
Do you really expect anyone to answer such a pathetic question?

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