Tuesday, August 24, 2010

When is the right time for marriage and children?

Im 20 and he is 21. We started dating in high school and have been together for 5 1/2 years so far. Currently we both are in college and have about 1 to 2 year left. We talk about being married and our future family so its nothing new. My question in when would be about the right time to get married? When should we then try for children? Any suggestions?When is the right time for marriage and children?
The right time is when you are financially stable enough and mature enough to except the responsibilities that go along with it. I would wait until you've both graduated from college to get married, and children any time after that (assuming you have the funds).When is the right time for marriage and children?
After 3 failed marriages! 30 is the perfect age for marriage, live together first at least 3 ,years Then marry 2 ,more years children this is from experience !!! P.S in this Disposable world Marriage is no longer practical. only the children suffer!!!!!
I got married when i was 18 and have been married for 5 years!! IF YOU LOVE EACH OTHER go for it you can still go to college being married and having children you dont need to finish school first..you should get married !!! life is so much more meaningful when you have a husband and children its the best feeling in the world!!! GOOD LUCK AND CONGRATULATIONS XOXOXO
I think you should get married when you finish college. You've been together for quite a while, which is a good sign. Kids should come when you've been married and remember if you do have kids try to plan to stay home with them their first years, it makes a big difference in their lives.:)
You could get engaged anytime and then get married after you both graduate. As far as kids go, I would decide where you are going to live, work, etc. before you have kids. Maybe save some money and go on some fun trips. You are young, enjoy some time together as a married couple and then have kids.
You both have so much time and you are so young. I would wait until you both are finished college (at least) until you get married. Then it would be best to be married at least 2 years before children. You want to build a good strong marriage before bringing other people into it. Don't rush it enjoy your journey now. :-)
I think that is up to the both of you. There is no right time, if the two of you love each other get married and than decide when you want to have kids, you are both young and if you waited to have kids for a few years there is nothing wrong with that. Live your life it is too short. Good luck
If you are asking these questions I think you are not ready for either. Education comes first so when you do marry you can support yourselves as well as children.
well finish college and find a job just make sure that you and him are stable financially and you are ready :) best wishes to you

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